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Accountability Partner Training #1: Why Do People Look at Pornography

The crazy thing is that most of the time, it isn't about sex. It isn't about how beautiful, thin or young a spouse or partner is. It's about the escape that he or she finds by going to this fantasy wo…

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Accountability Partner Training #2: Your Role as an Accountability Partner

Your friend will have extra strength and motivation to avoid pornography knowing that you will see the sites they visit. This is why you need to read the weekly reports. Then talk to your friend, if y…

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Accountability Partner Training #3: What Should I Do If I Discover That My Friend Looked At Pornography

When a bad report comes it's simple. "Ask questions and offer support. Do it without attack. Be bold, be gentle and be honest. Seek to understand... be prepared to listen." \- Tess Marshall, psycholog…

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Accountability Partner Training #4: Justification Sounds Like...

A justification like this always contains a lie. Here are some examples of justifications, and some of the lies they contain: “I only looked at a little bit.” It still has an effect on you. A little b…

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Accountability Partner Training #5: What is a Trigger

Your friend could be triggered by a variety of things, like feeling stressed, bored, hungry, angry, lonely or tired. Other triggers may include driving past an adult billboard, seeing someone in exerc…

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Accountability Partner Training #6: The Long-Term Change Process

Although ups and downs are normal for everyone, you should notice an overall change for the better. When your friend is being truly accountable, you will begin to see real improvement. Here are a few …

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Accountability Partner Training #7: In Case You Need More Help

We are coming to a close now and hope we have provided a great foundation for improvement. We are not therapists or psychologists, but we will do all we can to help your friend achieve their goals. If…

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Ever Accountable Works (...and it works fast!)

"Knowing that my accountability partner (my wife) will receive a report of my online activity removes nearly all temptation. It has made a tremendous difference in our relationship." We hear comments …

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Are You a Dad Who Uses Pornography (Part Two)

(Part 1 is here) In last week's post, we discussed ways to open a conversation with your child/teenager about pornography, how to make a game plan for situations that they may face, and things you can…

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